This story begins with a marred couple attending a local church each week. They have acquired many friends within
this church, mainly because both attended the same church school from their youth.
As time went on the couple drifted
apart and for whatever reason, separated and became divorced. She was asked by him if she would mind attending a different
church, which she agreed to.
The main point to this story is to reveal what seems most important
to people, in general, when picking a church. And I'm hoping to point out that it would be better for us to think and
search a little deeper for better reasons.
Now we all know there are different church groups that are as far from
the East is from the West as to what they teach as doctrine. Yes, you guessed it, she ended up in that far off camp and I
was, of course, very interested to hear how that happened.
When opportunity came, I asked to hear her story. She said
she start dating this person that attended this other camp (denomination) and he'd asked her if she wanted to go to church
with him, and she agreed. She said she found the church people and it's pastor to be very warm and friendly, they all
made her feel very much at home. She also said the pastor had very inspirational sermons and all the different things she
had heard all her life about this other camp didn't come up, it became insignificant to her.
Now I must ask, for
people in general, is that really enough? Well, for obvious reasons, it seems to be. For a person like me that puts most of
my energy towards points of doctrine to make sure this whole thing is making sense, this has been a big pill for me to swallow.
But I have to admit, people in general, seem to be satisfied with the "feel good" approach to making the all important
decision as to what they chose to believe.
As I look back, I also have to admit, if I was attending a church that had
poor music and a boring pastor and the people didn't seem to care if I was there or not, I no doubt would be looking for
something different. With that in mind, it's obvious we can't say it's not important to feel good about where
we attend. This is a normal human trait, if I were attending the local bar each week, the same rules would surely apply. People
in general need to feel welcome and feel they have gained something for being there.
This whole thing makes me think
of how a "Boy / Girl" connection usually begins. Most of us can hear it now; "He or she is so cute!" And
life long decisions, many times, are made with no more information than that.
Are you beginning to understand my concerns?
If you are looking for fellowship, if you feel a need for a spiritual base in your life, this is normal. All of us have the
same need to really feel fulfilled, but we need to have more information than; he or she is cute or the people sure make me
feel at home.
So how can we pull the two together? I mean a sound doctrinal base along with the things that make everyone
feel up-lifted and at home, where the whole scene is a satisfying experience. I can only suggest, but I believe we owe it
to ourselves to at least investigate the issues within the different belief systems.
Often I hear the comment, "I
don't care about all that stuff, I just want to feel up-lifted and fed so I can handle the week ahead." Again, I
can only suggest, but I must point out that "all that stuff" is the foundation from where you can be fed and up-lifted,
giving you the spiritual strength to carry the load life deal us.
One of my favorite Bible text is Prov. 9:10; (The
Living Bible) "For the reverence and fear of God are basic to all wisdom. Knowing God results
in every other kind of understanding."
What we need to understand is doctrine (all that stuff) is teaching about
God. I don't know about you, but I want to know what I'm believing in and where I'm going. If I were walking up
to the counter to buy a ticket from a travel agent, the first question from them would be; "where do you want to go?
Isn't there just a little sound of common sense in that? Why would anyone want to climb aboard - (things of life, choosing
a mate - choosing a church) without first accumulating sufficient evidence upon which an intelligent decision could be made?
So how about it? Lets do some investigating - I mean, of the evidence about the teachings about God - all that stuff,
called doctrine.
I rest my case.